It is so lovely,
after working,
window shopping,
with you.
So lovely.
Thank you.
Love.
Friday, August 17, 2012
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Is Your Relationship Ready For Marriage?
Marriage is a huge step, and it’s definitely not something to rush into. How can you tell if the relationship you are in is marriage material?
All you really need to do is get it washed regularly, get the oil changed, and get tires every so often. That’s not doing work on your car. You put gas in the tank and turn the key. It goes or it doesn’t. If you don’t do maintenance, you’re an idiot, but you’re going under the hood either. The best marriages in my estimation are the easiest. The more work you’re doing the more problems you have by default. Sure there will be ups and downs, but too much time under the hood usually means it’s time to trade in for a different make and model.
The more alike you are, the more you’re going to stay together, because common ground is required to build the foundation upon which the house that is your marriage is built on. The house is built on the foundation and the foundation is designed to fit the house exactly. They don’t say “well, it kind of fits, but we’ll work around it.” No construction foreman has ever looked at a foundation and said “well, I know that’s how it is now, but I’m sure it’ll change down the road.”
You’re two different people with different experiences and view points, so disagreements are inevitable, but you should be arguing because you both want to do the same thing, you just differ on how to do it. If you have the opposite problem, maybe you should just keep dating.
Do You Like Them With Their Clothes On?
Sure, everyone’s tons of fun when they’re naked and doing naughty things you. And lots of sex happens when you are dating, often because you two have different homes and can get the hell away from the other. A relationship is one thing, marriage is different, because you’re always there with each other. Generally speaking, your spouse should be as much fun with their clothes on as they are with them off.How Lucky Do You Feel?
When you’re around this person do you feel like you hit the lottery? Do they make you giddy like a school girl? Get lots of goosebumps? Then marriage is definitely in order. If you don’t, you may not want to walk down the aisle. Romance ebbs and flows but if you’re not feeling super lucky to be with them, then it’s a red flag.How Easy Is It?
They say relationships are hard work. That’s not true. BAD relationships are work. Good relationships aren’t. If your relationship is easy like Sunday morning, then it’s time to start thinking about walking down the aisle. People love to say relationships take work. They don’t. Relationships are like a car. The vast majority of people reading this don’t know anything about brakes, shocks, struts and all the other car parts you can’t pronounce. Does that stop you from owning and operating a car? No. You don’t need to do work on your car. You just need to do maintenance.All you really need to do is get it washed regularly, get the oil changed, and get tires every so often. That’s not doing work on your car. You put gas in the tank and turn the key. It goes or it doesn’t. If you don’t do maintenance, you’re an idiot, but you’re going under the hood either. The best marriages in my estimation are the easiest. The more work you’re doing the more problems you have by default. Sure there will be ups and downs, but too much time under the hood usually means it’s time to trade in for a different make and model.
Are You On The Same Page?
Opposites attract, but they don’t marry. If you are super frugal and your partner spends like a drunken sailor, do you really expect it to work long term? Movies always love to talk about the uptight, type A girl and the slacker/hippie type who steals her heart. That works in movies, but in real live they hook up or date but they don’t marry. Or if they do, they’re miserable. Why? Because she is who she is and he is who he is.The more alike you are, the more you’re going to stay together, because common ground is required to build the foundation upon which the house that is your marriage is built on. The house is built on the foundation and the foundation is designed to fit the house exactly. They don’t say “well, it kind of fits, but we’ll work around it.” No construction foreman has ever looked at a foundation and said “well, I know that’s how it is now, but I’m sure it’ll change down the road.”
You’re two different people with different experiences and view points, so disagreements are inevitable, but you should be arguing because you both want to do the same thing, you just differ on how to do it. If you have the opposite problem, maybe you should just keep dating.
Sunday, August 12, 2012
Friday, August 10, 2012
Mum's LiL Secret!
Decided that I'm gonna post this!!
Earlier this evening me and mum was giving Ronnie a bath,
And mum suddenly told us this little secret of hers when she was young!!
She said that she doesn't like to bath as in the older days there were no water heater and the water was so icey cold!!
She used to go into the bathroom, take some water with her palm and just pat them on her chest a few times and came out of the bathroom.
But grandma will say 'why did you bath so quickly?' and touch her body and it's warm!
Grandma will know that mum haven't bath yet and call her to go back to the bathroom and bath properly this time!!
OMG, my mum is sooo cute!!
Now she is as the same, although she bath everyday but her bathing session is like less than two minutes!!
Hahahahaha!!!
Aww, my mum is so cute!!
Earlier this evening me and mum was giving Ronnie a bath,
And mum suddenly told us this little secret of hers when she was young!!
She said that she doesn't like to bath as in the older days there were no water heater and the water was so icey cold!!
She used to go into the bathroom, take some water with her palm and just pat them on her chest a few times and came out of the bathroom.
But grandma will say 'why did you bath so quickly?' and touch her body and it's warm!
Grandma will know that mum haven't bath yet and call her to go back to the bathroom and bath properly this time!!
OMG, my mum is sooo cute!!
Now she is as the same, although she bath everyday but her bathing session is like less than two minutes!!
Hahahahaha!!!
Aww, my mum is so cute!!
Thursday, August 9, 2012
27th July 2012 pre-celebration of our 4 years and 2 month anniversary
Argh, haven't been posting for ages!!
Promise will blog more often!!Nowadays I've been saving my thoughts in my Ipad's canimals calender~
Will post them all in blog one by one~ :D
I know this is a super outdated one but it's better late than never~ :P
Went Monsta Cafe with baby for celebration!!
I love Monsta coz their food is good and the price is reasonably cheap!!
I like the environment too!!
Nowadays people also look more into special decorations and ambience.
^_^ While waiting for our food~
♥♥♥
Camwhore!! XD
IDK why but I love to take pic when we have time together~
But sometimes he'll do it with me and sometimes he doesn't feel like doing it and put emo face!! hahaha
Baby's pineapple fried rice!! He's coughing already still wanna eat fried rice!!
He said it's the best fried rice he ever had but I think it's too spicy for me..
My Dark hot Chocolate~ Very rich, me likey!!
My cheesy fish spaghetti!! Servings are too big for me!! >.<
Lucky baby piggy will help me finish them all!! XD
Baby can't wait to dig in already!!
Love the ambience, love the wallpaper~
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Collage I made, nice right!! ;)
Want baby to take this one coz of the cute pattern on the cup!
After dinner, we went to buy Ipad casing but all the shops were closing already so baby bought me to Danga Bay instead~
Le swan train, no ppl one...
Le lonely 'uncle' XD
Cruise!! Ferry!! ♥o♥
Took one pic only coz too dark!!
Baby bought me this balloon!! RM5 okay!! very ex lei~ He said.. ;P
Me n my lovely balloon before going to bath~
OOTD~ Simple and loving it!!
Tata~ ♥♥♥
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