爱上哪个星座的人会有很累?

天秤座

天秤的爱很真，也很简单，只要你付出一分，他们就会回报你十分。只是，爱上这样一个看似愿意拥抱平淡的星座，却并不如想象般轻松。不是无理取闹，也无关要 求太多，而是归因于天秤那个太过容易受到影响的心。明明相爱，却总是被别人的一句不看好打断;刚刚才发誓要携手一辈子，转身又无辜的表示还没有做好真正的 决定。一来二去，爱依旧，累也与日俱增，不过如果你心平气和接受他们的犹豫，耐心等待，还是能爱到最后的。



双鱼座
爱上双鱼，就一定也要爱上他们的梦，不然会常常被他们犹如天方夜谭的想法给惊到，也就不可能顺利融入到他们的内心世界中。试想，如果无法了解爱人的想法;无法参与到爱人描述的故事中去，不管听上去有多么可笑，又如何引导他们爱自己。单单只爱双鱼，而不爱他们的梦，其结果也就会是感情脱轨，走在不同的情路上，怎么可能会不累。要么就需要你恍然大悟，找到爱双鱼的方向，才能爱的轻松，爱的惬意。

The different ways of loving your love ones are special in any way no matter haw others say about it~ =)

既然知道我心情不好，
还是把我一个人留在这里。。
自己悲伤啊！！
看来，
我真的是选对人了~

Finished exams,
Now staying at home all day become a nerd dy..
Now I'm addicted to one Taiwanese drama which I followed few months already.
It's really hard to wait coz it updates one episode every Monday.
>.<
Now I'm addicted to another Korean drama and I finished 14 episodes in 3 days..
@.@
Now waiting for the next episode!!
OMG!!
Why is it so slow...
=.=


Okay, lets talk about the Taiwanese Drama named
"Drunken To Love You"

This scene is when they went to a resort and the guy show his confession towards the girl..

^^

Aw, so sweet~

Hhaha, this scene damn funny!!

LMAO!!!

=D

Wish that I could have a love story like this too~

>.<

The main characters!!

Kiss kiss scene

>o<

It is a MUST WATCH!!
Damn funny,
About contract marriage then they actually fell in love~


Okay next,
KOREAN DRAMA!!!
:D
It's called 
"Lie To Me"
Also a drama about contracted marriage!!
WTF!!
Same..
But also damn funny lo!!

^^

Love the female main character!!

Though I dunno the name..

=.=

LOL,

Play with coke then kiss kiss...

Aw, sho sweet!!!

>.<

Nearly kissed,

But didn't..

=]

The two of them so damn cute~

^^

Super like!!
ALSO
MUST WATCH!!!
=P
Okay I think that's all for now..
Have to wait for new episodes..
>.<
FASTER!!!
Kthxbye~

看来，已经被遗弃了呢。。。

It's kind of a moody day for me..

Have spent the whole day wasting time on fb, twitter, tumblr, youtube...

Lifeless..

I miss him, but he's busy...

Don't promise me forever,

Just love me day by day,

No one knows the future.

I've kind of not believe in "promises" anymore.

Coz all he gave is promises and then disappointing...

I'm kind of tired of it already..

It's quite true though,

People tend to be with you when they needed you.

After that, you're just some total stranger..

It's really hard to get someone that treats you with their true heart.

Anyway, yeah he's still working with his exams.
Tmr he will be having his last paper.
Wish him luck then~
That's all for now!!
Kthxbye~ 

Hola,
My feeling now is very complicated...
Although I have finished my exam 
Wohooo!!
But was still worried about it as I'm not sure if I did a good job..
>.<
Very worried about it!!
STILL!!
=(
Babe having his last paper on the 22nd and he's also free!!
^^
Exited for my holidays but nervous on my exam... 
=.=
Haiz...
Go to sleep la!!!
Tmr will be better!!
Bye peeps!!
^.*

Argh, still reading the case study!!
When am I going to start with the appendix!!!
And,
I'm not sure if the printer is still functioning...
It's my notes!! 
OMG!!!
Stress,,,
=(
Babe, I need you...

And this is what I did all day!!!

Sh*t!!!

Focus man!!

It's the last year already!!

No failing please!!

Okay okay...
Breathe in....
Breathe out...
Continue with my case study!!
Tata~

Random

Hi guys!!
When I said "guys" It will only mean my bf..
XD
Coz I think only me and my bf knew the existence of this blog...


Anyway, it's a blog that records the bits and pieces of our love life~
^3^

I'll imagine that those lovely couples in the pictures are me and you...

;P

Haha, okay back to the main point!!
Wait, there is no main point here!!
It's a random blog post...
=.=
Okay, just want to say that I've changed our blog's background!! 
:D
& issues on me and my sis were resolved!!
^^
She's not mad at me..
She's just stressed on her workload...
>.<
Okay,
I really have to start with the case study,,,
=/
Or else I will not have time to finish all the revision...
Bye~

要挽回就是要改變‏

很多身邊的朋友，在你失戀的時候，絕大多數都不贊成你挽回。最大的原因就是：他都那麼狠心不要你了，你為何還不願意放手！看你痛苦的樣子，跟你交心的朋友，沒有一個捨得的。


畢竟兩個人有過怎樣的情感，只有你自己最清楚！他值不值得挽回，或許現在看到的是他狠心的一面，但你堅信他一定還是會回到當初信誓旦旦，要照顧你的他。


挽回是條很辛苦的感情路，無論結局要好與否，這個過程都是值得的。因為你會因為這樣的打擊，思考過很多很多當初不曾想到的事情。


當然都是需要改變的，甚至你當初認為不是你的問題，現在為了挽回，過去他說過的不如意，一切就都聖旨一樣遵從，求的只是在有一次相愛的機會。


失戀並不是壞事，因為只有這樣，才能改變成更好的你。且我也相信，深愛過你的他，並不會給你天大的要求，要你做出不合理的改變。況且他希望你的改變，不都是為了你們兩個的感情可以更好嗎？


並沒有任何一個人，不經過學習，就可以在感情世界裡表現得完美無缺。在感情裡幸福的戀人，也是經過了無數的爭吵，爭吵過後，更了解彼此的個性，才會離幸福更近一步。


當然在這段感情裡，對方也一定有表現不好的地方，一定也有不如你意的部份。但現在想要挽回，總是得從自己的改變開始，而不是一昧的怪罪於他人，責備他為何欺騙你、怪罪他為何背叛你.....


改變是給自己的最大幫助，無論這段感情能不能在繼續，起麻這段感情讓你得到很多的啟發，很多的教訓。失戀讓你更了解了自己、更了解了異性。而不是像朋友說的那樣，在找一個就好，沒有改變的你，重蹈覆轍，問題還不是一樣沒有解決嗎？


所以失戀並不是壞事，不要去逃避，要懂得面對。雖然挽回過程很艱辛，但就是種改變自己的動力，有這樣的推手，你才會離幸福更近一步！！

別去計較別人如何待你，你只要做好你的本份就好

女人需要愛，男人一樣也需要。


只要你懂了這點，你就會去善待他，這並不是每天給他做點好吃的那麽簡單。


有些女人即使在家什麽都不做，他的男人也當她是個寶，寧願一輩子給她當牛做馬，這是為什麽？


為什麽我們會覺得付出那麽多卻無法得到回報？


相反男人離我們越來越遠？我們感到委屈，我們無法想明白為什麽會是這樣的結果？


想想吧，做個聰明的女人吧，這太重要了。


有些男人值得你去爭取，甚至是拼了命也要去奪，但有些男人則不需要挽留。


當一個人、一件事已經不再適合你，當一個人的心已不在你身上的時候，不要委曲求全，放棄意味著重生和更好的選擇。


記住，男人並非你的全部。要相信自己沒有誰都可以活下去，而且會活的更好、更精彩。當你把自己調整好，你就不必擔心男人會跑掉。


為什麽有的人看問題很敏銳，很有獨到的見地？就是因為他們能不斷的思考，從問題中找問題、找答案，然後及時加以改正。


當問題出現時要冷靜思考，不要盲目的去求全責備，要折中一個理智的辦法，是去改善而不是去火上澆油，要身體力行後再要求別人。


調整你的心態、調整你的心情、調整你的位置，善待你自己和身邊的人。你愛你的丈夫，就要愛他身邊的每一個人。


“愛屋及烏”,所以你要愛他的父母和家人，無論老人如何不盡你意，但他們畢竟是老人、是長輩。因為他們的是你丈夫的父母，所以你要當自己父母一樣的心態去看待他們。你贏得了他們的心，你就在你家庭的天平上多加了一個籌碼。


而當有一天，你的丈夫對你不好或不忠時，你的身邊會有許多人站出來替你說話和撐腰。


做到贏得他父母的心其實很簡單，只要一個微笑、一個電話、一聲短短甜甜的呼喚、一包糕點、一份細心和關懷就足夠了。


為什麽說有些人是：“哄死人不償命呢”？這都是你舉舉手、張張口就能做到的事。


別去計較別人如何待你，你只要做好你的本分就好，相信以心終能換心。不要只求索取，而不想付出。


當你以這樣的心態去做時，你會平和許多，也許你還會有意外的收獲呢？那樣你得到的就遠遠超過了所付出的。“有心栽花花不開，無心插柳柳成蔭”。


只要當他們是自己的爹媽，當自己不是媳婦而是女兒時，你的景觀就不會再被動，做個聰明的女人吧。


想想你如能做到這一切，你的男人還會離開你，只能說明他沒眼光、沒福氣。你就由他去好了，這樣的人也不值得你挽留，因為他不懂你的價值，不要也罷。

急於挽回，不如冷靜思考‏

如果不想放棄感情，就應該找出分手的原因，不要急抓著對方索求機會，這樣只會讓對方更肯定離開的決定是對的。


在她的要求下，兩人分手了。一開始，他無法接受這個事實，三不五時就打電話給她，想了解她的狀況，她不堪其擾，感到厭煩。


吃了幾次閉門羹之后，他開始反省自己，明白是自己不夠上進，讓她一次又一次失望 ，才會選擇離開。

從那天開始，他不再打擾她，也為自己定立一個目標，努力去完成。雖然如此，他還是沒有放棄她，于是改變方位，從側面去關心她。


他每天都到她的網志去了解她的心情；她生病了，就請朋友去關心她；心情不好，就找個開心果去陪她聊天。他的用心，她都感受到了。


他們兩人還是好朋友。不過他已經列入她的觀察名單中，只要表現“優良”，還是有機會讓戀情起死回生。


戀人分手后最怕的不是當不成朋友，變成仇人，而是對方的死纏爛打。雖然分開的原因有很多種，也不一定雙方都願意，但是只要“分手”就代表需要一段時間各自冷靜。


如果你不想放棄這段感情，不想因為誤會而遺憾一輩子，那就更該靜下心來思考，找出分手的原因，仔細評估是否還有復合的機會。


不要急著抓住對方要求解釋，或是索求機會，這樣只會讓對方跑得更快，逃的更遠，更肯定離開的決定是正確的。


從側面關心，是一個好方法，請周圍的朋友代為照顧，循序進展改善彼此的關系。不過最重要的，還是要讓對方看見你是真的有心改變。

學著接受愛是會變的‏

愛一個人，就可以愛一輩子不變嗎？每對熱戀中的情人都渴望一生一世山盟海誓，但，承諾了一輩子，就真的可以幸福美滿了嗎？


人的心思，大概是最難捉摸也最難預估的，有時候，也許是一件事、一個觸發、一個領悟，就可以改變一個人的思想，雖然不至於讓一個人徹頭徹尾轉了性子，卻也可能讓一個人的行為與之前有了差異。


說不定，就這麼一秒的瞬間，你可能更愛情人，也可能發現到好像，不那麼愛了。


永恆的只有── 活在當下的霎那~才能使這論壇茁壯,才能看到世上更多更美好事物


愛一個人，是一種當下的感覺。


這一刻的感覺能不能持續到永久，誰能夠很肯定地拍胸脯保證？


總以為，今天愛，不代表明天還愛；明天還愛，不代表後天還要愛

當日子一天天過去，愛的感覺可能日益增長，自然也可能日漸消褪。


所以，誰能保證愛是不會變的呢？


在這個世界裡，人與人的相遇愈來愈頻繁，似乎只要一個「機緣巧合」，就有了相戀的可能。而也許在相愛之後，慢慢地發現了彼此的不適合，漸漸地把愛磨損，到最後，不愛了。一直都以為，愛是會變的。


因為，人心會變，感受會變。但是，因為愛會變，就決定因噎廢食地不想愛了嗎？那未免又太過消極了些！　


沒錯，愛是會變的，然而，可能變好，可能變壞。聰明的你，想讓愛有怎樣的變化？


正因為愛會變，人必須學著更成熟地去處理自己心情上的變化；因為愛會變，人必須懂得去經營愛情，讓愛歷久彌堅。　　


當你已經盡了最大的努力，卻發現愛依然殘酷地有了改變，那麼也沒有什麼好遺憾的了，反正別人不愛你，你還可以愛自己。


懂得體認愛的善變，慢慢學著去適應愛所帶來的一切，當愛隨著時間改變時，你也必須學著時間而有所成長，如此一來，你才能勇敢去面對因為愛所帶來的任何衝擊，甚至如魚得水。


所以，學著去接受愛是會變的，敞開心胸去擁抱愛的善變，那麼，你將會發現，不管愛怎樣改變，你都可以保有完整的自我，不讓愛的多變深刻地傷了你。　　


最後，你會發現，與其祈禱「不要變」，不如讓自己隨愛而變，當愛消褪時，適時地添柴加溫；當愛發燒時，適當地緩和兩人的激情。


讓愛可以恆溫地持續下去，才是真正懂得愛的人

I'm really tired of all these!!!
Can I just leave this world quietly and peacefully??
='(

Sad case

This is so sad,
I fell like he is just entertaining me...
He doesn't feel like talking to me...
He said "I need to study"
But he's just watching Youtube!!
WTF!!!
I was so angry,
He said that coz he doesn't want me to disturb him 
and he just went and watch some Youtube video!!
He told me "I'll prove to you that I love you"
BULLSHIT!!!
Is this how u prove it to me??
Making me feel stupid!!
Purposely make me feel that I am annoying??
He was like (I need to study, don't disturb)
*Next second*
(He's watching Youtube)
Heellloooo,
Even stupid know what he's going to say..
(Pls go away, you're annoying!!)
='(
I really doesn't know what else to say...
Does he love me??
I am really tired of this!!!
Him "I love you"
Me "Really??"
Everyday no msg/call from him...
Only if I send him a msg 1st...
Or else, nothing..
At least, before sleep..
"Babe, I'm going to bed. Good night, I love you... Sweet dreams."
Is that so hard at all..
He seems like he's enjoying his life without me bothering him
Maybe in his heart,
I don't exist anymore...
Maybe,
Other people is there for him...
I'm tired...
Does he really care??
He has changed into a person that I don't know anymore...
A total stranger to me...
Maybe this is what he wants..

Total strangers...

Recently feeling really depressed...

There's nothing from him... at all

He just doesn't bother to let me know 

What so ever...

I think we are just living our own lives.

Like two total strangers..

Assignment stacking up making me more depressed..

Where are you when I needed you the most??

Are you mine??

I "wish".....

"someone" out there cares...

Wants to live in my sweet dreams...

"Would you"??

I'm sorry, but I tried...

A lot...

Feels like you're slowly letting go...

and I hate that...

& I'm standing alone...

here,

By myself.

Wish my heart get well soon...

I will just have to repair it myself...

Hope that in reality, you did not gave me up...

Why love doesn't divide equally??

There is always one person that loved more than the other one..

Yes, I'm dying inside...

I need to cry...

"I'm fine"

Sleeping with tears and waking up to be a stronger person.

=[

It would be easier... 

I want to love a man who loved me a million ways...

Emo bear...

Feels like going to the beach..

Nothing is going right...

I am trying real hard to stay with the person I love..

Is it worth living?

But I still believes in you, I'm trying hard...

It is the happiest thing on earth...

Yes, It will eventually lose it's meaning...

Do I make your world the most beautiful??

If you love me, let me know...

Much more than you thought...

It's harder for the one that is left behind...

Love is when...

Wish that you're happy..

Love is when...

I miss that feeling in your arms..

Holding me tight...

Love is when...

=]

Love is when...

We have not dance together before...

Love is when...

I can't imagine it, and you??

Before you let me down...

Kiss her cheeks and tell her everything is going to be okay...

How much longer...

It's not pretty it it's not real and true.. 

Feel what I'm thinking...

'we'

I'm afraid of not being loved..

How much you meant to me...

They get lost...

I'm just tired...

More than I can stand...

But I can't...

But I don't want to talk bout it.